Tips For A Good First Date

Face it there is a lot of pressure on a first date. Will you make a good impression? What if they don't like you? What if you spill something? There are a lot of what if's when it comes to a first date. It is enough to make anyone extremely nervous! Unfortunately, when people become nervous they tend to do stupid things. So here are some tips that can help you avoid doing something really stupid or cheesy on a first date.
Probably the most important thing to remember is to stick to what you know. This applies to where you eat, the type of activity you do, where you go. You want to appear confident and nothing will prove that you aren't than getting lost in your own city! So to avoid looking like a dork, go to a place where you know the hours, the menu, and the activities that are available. You don't want to show up to visit a museum only to find out they are closed for a special function.
Dress appropriately. First impressions go a long way, so make sure you offer a good one. If you are going golfing, dress casually but neat. Make sure your clothes are clean, wrinkle free and matching. In addition to making sure your clothes are right for the occasion, be sure and let your date know what you are doing so they can dress appropriately as well.
Keep your date informed. You want to be considerate, so make sure you keep your date informed about what time you will pick them up and what kind of activities you will be doing. It is also nice to find out what type of food your date likes so you can go somewhere that you both will like.
Make GOOD conversation. When you think of cheesy, it is usually the things that people say that come to mind. So make sure your conversation is pleasant, friendly, and considerate. Don't spend the entire date talking about yourself or putting other people down. Ask your date questions and then let the conversation build from there. Good conversation is the basis of a great relationship!
Yes, first dates can be nerve wracking and even a little frightening, but if you plan well and show kindness it can be a success. Just remember to be yourself and relax, then you can avoid a truly cheesy first date!


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